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Friday 23 January 2015

Don't SHY say HI

College life an integral part of everyone's life . As we have to Build our career, get a job after that, set our lives .... blah ... blah ... blah !!!!     Although it is not wrong but we have to use this part of our life in a much smarter way then this . So, that after completing this age we won't regret !!
                            We've all have a past. We all have a moment in life we wish we could go back and change. We all ask ourselves the same questions "what could I have done differently??" "why did I do that?" Etc. It's not that hard nowadays to look back in time and quickly remember not only the good times...but that time you wish you could back to and do it all over again. Facebook, Instagram and many more sites are quick to remind us of the past.
             Majority of us went to college to study but there should be some fun, some enjoyment, some memorable moments Etc.


But all these stuff you can't do alone you need a partner a group you need some friends ... right !!! So for that you have to say "HI".


Say "HI" to those whom you don't know
Say "HI" to those whom you like
Say "HI" to those whom you don't like
Say "HI" to your teachers
Say "HI" to your classmates
Say "HI" to those how feel shy to say HI
Build a positive attitude, Keep smiling .


 One more thing I would like to share with you all that in INDIAN colleges almost in all colleges major problems with communications I personally noticed that is :


               If a boy feels like he would have to talk to a girl ; so he has to keep many things in mind for e.g. what would his Friends think about him "that he is talking to her", "Why is he talking to her", "Whats the reason behind it", "is she also responding him", "How, What" ..... and so many absurd thought takes place in his mind and probably after these thoughts he forgets that what was the reason that he thoughts to talk to her ......... !!! and vice verse case when a girl thought to talk to his boy class fellow .


                                                 One common word used by boys to girls are "tere BHABHI hai" i mean, we are living in a society where boys and girls are equal so treat like that na.....

If a girl is sitting with a boy so everybody stares at them like anything ... and started thinking they are in a relation or what not .....


 If we remained thinking like that only then our thoughts will never get a purification and this leads to affects our communication .

 So, purify your thoughts first, all are equal, "RESPECT GIRLS"


and talking to everyone, make new friends "Don't feel shy in saying HI" and it cost nothing !!!! 


                                                                                                    
     

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